Read what the male profile is actually proposing
Select Male under Gender, then inspect the biography and greeting. The character may be written as a partner, a stranger or someone with an entirely different connection to you.
Use Style for the appearance you prefer. Let the setup and subsequent dialogue establish whether the story is romantic, friendly or focused on an adventure.
Give the two characters a reason to speak today
A shared history becomes useful when something has changed. Decide what your character knows about him and introduce one new event that neither of you can ignore.
Keep personality and visual directions separate
For an image, choose the companion first, then describe clothing, action and surroundings. A jacket on a workbench and morning light through a harbour window are visual details; a long personality description is not a substitute for them.
Voice features have separate controls and usage conditions. If you want a different physical identity, review creation options rather than trying to replace the saved features through a scene prompt.